"Why do you say women run the Lifestyle?"
Because men are usually larger, stronger, and more intimidating than women. If women weren't in charge, the Lifestyle would be a very uncomfortable and intimidating place. We don ™t even like to think about it.
Our other theory is that since the majority of women in the Lifestyle are bi-sexual, they could have plenty of fun without any men around at all... So the men in the Lifestyle are extremely grateful that the girls even want them to be involved.