"Is there any Lifestyle Lingo I should know before continuing?"
Good question. Here are a few common terms that people use when talking about the Lifestyle. We use some of these terms in the FAQs that follow.
Vanilla -someone who is not in the Lifestyle.
Unicorn -a single female in the swinging lifestyle who enjoys having sex with couples.
Soft swap -a couple who likes to play, but draws the line somewhere short of intercourse. This covers a very broad spectrum, as a "soft swap" couple might limit themselves to just touching, or they might be okay with and enjoy oral sex, just not vaginal sex. Communication is critical so everyone understands the limits.
Full swap -intercourse included!
Same Room -Couples who only play in the presence of their significant other, with everyone having sex in the same room, even if with other people. This is the majority, but certainly not all, of the couples in the lifestyle.
Play -to engage in sexual activity is to "play". If someone asks if you want to play, they don't mean cards.
Meet & Greet -a gathering of swingers at an off-premise location, where you can meet others in the lifestyle.
Takeover -when a group of lifestylers pay to secure 100% of a facility for a swinger party or event. No vanilla people are allowed at the facility during a takeover.
Swinger -Um... If you've made it this far into the site and still don't know what a swinger is... then I think you're wasting your time on this website... Here, maybe this is more your speed - click here.
On-Premise/Off-Premise -simply says whether sexual activity is permitted at the facility. On “premise clubs have areas where people can play, off-premise clubs don't. Our hotel parties are On-Premise Events.
To learn more lifestyle lingo, we recommend you visit the FAQ page on Kasidie.com.